After (finally) setting aside some time to reflect on 2018 and tuck it safely away as one of my most noteworthy years, it only seemed fitting to spend a minute ushering in this new one in a similar fashion — with a post dedicated entirely to it, of course!
So… what’s up, 2019? This is me welcoming you with wide-opened arms; inviting you into an eager embrace. Can you feel my optimism? That innocent hope that hasn’t yet been stroked? The sheer determination to make you my most favorite year ever?!
Well if for some reason you can’t, here’s your bleeping-red warning to buckle up. Because we’re doing this, 2019. We’re in it for the long haul.
Unless you’re someone who finds joy living exclusively in the past (no thanks), it’s pretty hard not to be excited about the notion of a fresh start. 365 new and untouched days to make sh*t happen?! Sign me up!
Like clockwork, along with the new year have arrived countless reflective and inspirational posts on goal-setting and becoming an all-around healthier individual — from our finances and how to achieve those monetary goals to our psyche and, well, our health.
More surprisingly, though, is the number I’ve read about people ditching resolutions altogether. At the heart of these posts (though still inspirational in their own right) is the notion of how many of us set our sights high — almost too high — with what we aim for, and in the process, we assign far too much importance to these yearly goals and our failure to achieve them. Instead of them inspiring us to work harder and be better, these resolutions loom over us in an ominous, always-watching manner, making the potential of defeat that much worse.
For me, personally, resolutions are something I will likely never stop setting. They keep me accountable and see to it that I am always making decisions with intent. Plus, without them existing in the first place, I wouldn’t be able to revisit them later on and shift my focus for the remainder of the year or celebrate the things I’ve already accomplished with a little happy dance.
I love the new year. I, like many, use it a launching pad… my sights often set on a medley of small attainable goals and major life goals that will definitely take longer than one year to achieve. I like to keep these larger hopes and dreams in mind throughout the year, though, to ensure that I am making moves here and there that will lead me to reach them.
2018 was my self-titled Year of Me. I set broad intentions as well as significant personal goals — many of which were recycled from years prior and most of which I can say I was finally able to cross off. Nothing felt sweeter. After the whirlwind of a year that 2018 was, I’m approaching this new one a little differently. I want to slow down and live in the present. I want to engage more with the here and now.
2019 will be my year of Goodness.
I want to be good to others. I want to volunteer more. I want to help those in need. I want to smile more at strangers. I want to practice paying it forward.
But I also want to be good to me. I want to be careful with how I talk to myself. I want to continue this streak of self-love I’ve been experiencing, but also know when to show a little tough love, too. I want to become stronger — with my body and my mind. I want to always be hopeful for my bigger dreams (being published on one or more of my favorite forums, writing a book) instead of unnerved by what it might take to realize them. I want to see more and do more. I want to stop putting things off.
All of this in the hopes that I become a better person because of it and that I contribute a little “goodness” to the world.
So here’s to 2019! I am hopeful for you and committed to you for the next 365 days (or, well, 354 because procrastination — I’ve still got it, y’all!).
What are some of your resolutions and intentions for the new year?